11 Obvious Signs a Guy Is Flirting with You

Ever wonder if that nice guy is flirting with you? There are a few proven ways that can tell you if he is interested in you. While it’s difficult to read body language at times, it’s possible if you know where to start. Here are 10 ways that men unconsciously and even consciously let you know that they like you. Take a look, see what you see and maybe you will find your love right now.

1. Lovely smile

Lovely smile
A lovely smile is actually a good sign and, when it comes to flirting, it’s one of the surest signs he is interested in you. If you notice that he is smiling at you, there’s a good chance he likes you and wants to approach you. Maybe he is shy, so why not show him your confidence and courage by approaching him first? Of course, if you like him. After all, there is nothing to be ashamed of if you approach a man first. Just smile back, initiate a conversation with him and don’t try to play hard to get. Playing hard to get is a great boost, but often it’s a big turn off for guys.

You Catch Him Staring
A guy who likes you is going to look at you… obviously! So, if you catch him looking at you from across the room, that’s good. It’s also good if he looks you up and down (although also a little creepy) when he’s talking to you. Pay attention to where his eyes go. A dude who isn’t interested isn’t going to spend a lot of time looking at you… if anything, he’s going to try to avoid you.

He Is Trying To Impress You By Bragging A Little
When a guy has a crush, he almost always tries to impress her by bragging a little bit. He might not even realize he’s bragging, he’s just trying to get you to like him back. He might subtly talk about the things he’s good at, like “casually” dropping that he’s in a band, or he got a really good grade on a test, or something like that. When I first met my boyfriend, he spent a lot of time talking to me about how his dirtbike, quad and sports car. Later, he told me he was just trying to impress me. It’s cute! If you notice a guy bragging like this, it’s because he wants you to think he’s special.

He’s Nervous and Fidgety
Unless he’s super, super suave, he’ll get a little bit nervous when he’s flirting with you. Pay attention to his body language. Is he fidgeting around? Is he playing with a pen or jiggling his leg around or running his hands through his hair? These are all signs that he’s nervous. And guys usually don’t get nervous around people they don’t care about, so… take it was a good sign.

He Tilts His Head Towards You
When a guy is talking to a girl he likes, his natural instinct is to tilt his head and the rest of his body towards you. He’s trying to get closer to you, trying to show you he’s interested in what you’re saying… and maybe trying to smell you, I don’t know. JK on that last part (or is it real?). The point is, he’ll be leaning in towards you, not leaning away.

He Smiles or Giggles A Lot
Think about how you act when you’re talking to your crush. You’re happy and a little bit nervous. You probably have a big, doofy smile on your face, or a little nervous one. You probably giggle a little bit more than you normally do. Well, guys do this also, even the giggling bit. If he laughs at a lot of things you say and smiles through most of the conversation, that means he’s happy, giddy and at ease.

He Makes Suggestive Comments
Unless this guy is pretty shy or awkward, he’ll probably try flirting by making some suggestive comments. He’ll joke around about how you guys should hook up, or he’ll say sexual jokes, or he’ll say some dirtier stuff if he’s really smooth. He’s not putting himself out there in that way because he DOESN’T want to hook up with you, okay?

He Gently Teases You Without Being Mean
You know how, when you were in middle school, your mom used to say that that little boy was just being mean to you because he likes you? Well, older guys aren’t going to be flat-out mean if they like you (unless they’re really immature and misguided)… they’re just going to tease you a little bit. They’ll joke around and kind of make fun of you, but only in a really gentle way. They’ll make it clear that they’re not trying to put you down, they’re just trying to joke around.

He Makes Fun Of Other Guys You Know
Even if he’s not your boyfriend, a lot of guys get pretty territorial around a girl they like. If he’s really flirting, he’ll probably make a few mean comments about other guys he knows you talk to. He’ll joke around and try to put them down in a “funny” way.

He Gets Excited When You Guys Have Something In Common
How does he react when he finds out that you guys are both obsessed with Game of Thrones? What does he say when he discovers that you both have the same favorite band? If he gets really excited and amped about it, that means he’s happy to find that he has something in common with you, because he likes you! If he’s just like, “Eh, whatever,” it probably means he doesn’t care.

He Goes Out Of His Way To Touch You A Little
For those who are bold enough, touching is a huge part of flirting. It’s not that he’s going to wrap his arms around you and stroke your hair (unless he’s very confident)… he’ll reach out to touch your arm, or your leg. He might try to “casually” slip an arm around you. He might give you a hug goodbye and go in for a kiss on the cheek. Stuff like that. He’ll try to be subtle about it.


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